9.24.2008

And The Bad News Rears Its Ugly Head.

I just found out tonight that a dear friend of mine who holds a very special place in my heart has been diagnosed with brain cancer.

I met her when I was a kid, only ten or eleven. She, her husband and two kids had just moved in three houses down. Our families became fast friends, and we spent lots of time with them.

She was a breast cancer survivor. She'd fought the disease and won. A few years later, she was diagnosed with breast cancer again. Once again, she overcame the disease.

Two or three years ago (was it really so long ago?), she was diagnosed with cancer a third time, this time in her spine. It was a hormone-based cancer, and so she had a hysterectomy to battle the disease. Some people live with diabetes. She was going to live with cancer.

Now she's has a brain tumor.

I'm not quite sure what to say. She had two young children. She's an amazing person, and I associate so many things with her. Ripening wheat fields and the smell of horses. Beautiful roan hair and lively eyes. A welcoming home. A sense of humor that never excludes anybody. Royalty.

I don't want her to lose this fight. It seems so unfair that she, who has battled and won against this disease so many times, is fighting it yet again. I don't want to think about the possibility that it might win the war.

Please, keep my friend and her young family in your thoughts.

Thank you.

6 comments:

Trish said...

Oh Jezus. That sucks. Bad. Big hugs.

annie said...

saying a prayer for your friend...

and sending you one too.

granolagirl said...

She is in my thoughts and we should all take it as a call to live life to the fullest...

Jocelyn said...

This is very sad. She's lucky to have you 3 doors down! Hang in there, chickie.

xoxo J

Kayla W said...

Not three doors down anymore. We haven't been neighbours since I was in grade nine. I sure wish, though! They were great neighbours!

ikkinlala said...

I hope my comment gets through this time... I'm definitely thinking of her and her family.